Four ‘S’ for Boys & Four ‘B’ for Girls

These 4 “S” for boys and 4 “B” for girls are being chosen based on qualities needed for a happy, healthy family as well as fulfilling needs of the offspring and also to transfer better physical qualities to offspring. In no way this blog is directed to condescend/patronize any person or any gender in any way. This blog only would like to point to some qualities which the writer of the blog thinks are important for the couple relationship as well as for the time when that relationship changes to a family (means entry of kids).

Note: Here male gender is being referred as “boy” and female gender is being referred as “girl”

For Boys

a. Sincerity – Sincerity is on of the qualities boys must have and this sincerity would help them in their future relationship. A girl shall look for sincerity in boys while getting into the relationship. A sincere boy would be an ideal boyfriend and enhance honesty in the realtionship. Every girl admires sincerity in relationship as it is one of the reasons many relationships are breaking apart because there is sincerity lacking. “Honesty is the best policy“. A sincere father is needed for children, if the couple is planning to have kids in the future. A sincere father would teach honesty, empathy, helping attitute, sharing, teamwork to their kids.

b. Sentimental – This is another quality a boy must possess because a sentimental mind and heart understands love and expresses empathy better. This quality would help the person to have a healthy and loving relationship with their partner. A girl needs a sentimental mind to understand her even in difficult times. Again, a father with sentimental mind would be able to understand his future children much better.

c. Smart – Everyone loves to choose a smart person to be their partner in relationship or in life journey. Here smartness means knowledge of what to do, how to do, when to do and what are the consequences. A smart boy would solve many relationship issues, and would mitigate problems in life. A smart boy would bring more constructive ideas in the relationship, would nourish relationship better, thinks of progress, happiness and success. A smart father would impart this knowledge to their future children too. children would acquire this quality from their father during nuturing process and a leagcy would be created.

d. Strength – Having physical, mental, financial and emotional strength would bring sustainibility in the relationship, calmness in thinking, more understanding between two people, managing house stuff by themselves and ability to find more positive energy for the relationship. A father who is physically, mentally, financially and emotionally strong would help to raise kids better. Children needs a father who can run with them, plays with them, who has ability to fund for basic requirements of them, who teaches them to be calm in life, solve problems and guides them in their life with very high tolerance threshold.

For Girls

a. Brain – Smart for boys and brain for girls. Girls with brains (not literally but figuratively because we all have brains) would bring prosperity in the relationship, would have ability to solve relationship problems, help each other, prepare for future plans, guide partners in difficult times. A girl with brains would be a great mother in nurturing their kids, would prepare her kids for future challenges, would do multi-tasking with kids, teach many skills necessary for a prosperous life.

b. Beauty –We have inner beauty and outer beauty. We humans are very well evolved to identify outer beauty; we have natural instinct for it. But, again outer beauty also means natural, which is expressed by our genes. Genes responsible for outer beauty would be transferred to kids and would bring even better results when they get chance to express themselves fully.

Inner beauty is also important; understanding of Love, family, relationship, empathy, sharing, no hatred, no jealousy, positive thinking, calmness, helping attitude would make any relationship long lasting and very prosperous. A persson needs a deep observation and clean mind to identify this inner beauty. This inner beauty is going to help children to learn from their mother about these qualities of beauty.

c. Boobs – This quality in girls would giver greater chances of having enough milk for children in the future. A mother with big breasts would be very much more likely to produce enough milk for her kids. There is no negative intention or meaning in choosing this specific quality except only for future kid’s biological needs and demands.

d. Big butt – This quality adds extra beauty and strength in females. A girl with big butt would have big pelvis enough to bear a baby without much complications (Science says that narrower pelvis would make labor difficult for a female). Again, a mother with big pelvis would transfer this physical quality to her children too.

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