In-contrast and In-concert

In short in-contrast means our actions and behavior is not in rhythm. This can lead to conflict in the family and society. Father, mother and kids, if they are in-contrast, it could lead to family conflicts and exchange of words all the time.

In-concert simply means our actions and behavior is in rhythm with the members of our family and society. But, it does not mean to be in rhythm of wrong doings.

For example –

If parents consider bribery a normal thing and kids think that it not a good thing. That family would be in-contrast all the time.

If all the family members consider bribery a bad thing, they would always be in harmony and rhythm whenever there is an issue about it.

When we all have same good values, morals and guiding principles, we would always have in-concert within the family as well as the society. Arrogance and not being open minded could lead to closure of doors for opportunity to achieve in-concert. Some people when migrate to foreign countries, they open up themselves to be in-concert with the new society. They learn new values and way of living. And, they feel great after being in-concert in the new environment.

But, at the same time, if, someone does not try from their side to adapt and change, they would be in-contrast with others.